Have you ever woken up out of a dead sleep scared and upset about seeing your partner being unfaithful? It can be a pretty awful experience and sometimes it may seem that’s the reality. Don’t fret I’m here to ease your worries! Dreams aren’t always what they seem, even when it can feel otherwise. So take a deep breath of relief and keep on reading, as I give you some of the most common causes of these disturbing dreams. #dreams #dreammeanings #dreamcheating
IF YOUR PARTNER IS THE CHEATER
Reason 1
Most often than not it has nothing to do with your partner being a cheater, however he or she is the cause of you having these dreams whether intentional or not. I’ve found out along the way that when you are insecure in your relationships, these types of dreams manifest in our dreams. #insecurities #insecurerelationship
So In this situation you need to ask yourself what is causing the insecurity? Replay your dream, what was happening around you or with you during the cheating. This is important because spirit is telling you exactly why the insecurities are taking place.
If your partner was cheating on you in this dream and you were devastated by it, crying and feeling your whole world was ending, this means in your current life, you’re probably facing insecurity in the form of your partner not making you feel you’re his or her whole world , you’re worthy, or they’re emotional neglecting you In your waking life. Thus in turn, hurts you deeply in your dream, which shows up as the crying and feeling of complete loss.
In your waking life, you are emotionally spent and you need to release these emotions. You may be putting up a front in-front of your partner and locking up your true emotions. Spirit is coming in to tell you, it’s becoming toxic for you to hold all of these emotions and feelings in. Even if it means you have to be vulnerable and you’re not comfortable about it, you need to talk about it with your partner. If you don’t you will only built resentment towards your partner and it will cause a blow up down the road. How can your partner know how you’re feeling or why you’re feeling this way, if you won’t talk about it? They may not even realize they are causing you to feel this way, so let it be known to them.
Reason 2
If your partner was cheating and you are in a specific location that involves parents, friends, etc. This means that your insecurities are stemming from these people, whoever they are, having a lot of weight in your relationship. This means that you may not be secure in your relationship, as you feel your partner may be putting these peoples needs ahead of your own. That leaves you feeling left behind and feeling unimportant in your partners life.
Spirit is telling you It’s important that you speak up and let your partner know how you feel and put things in perspective. Leaving things to fester will only create a giant hole in your relationship.
IF YOU ARE THE CHEATER IN THE DREAM
Reason 1
If you’re the cheater in the dream, this means you’re making your partner feel insecure and you may or may not even be aware you are doing this. This is where looking at the details is important. Is your partner aware of this? How do you react to being caught or your partner knowing you’re cheating?
If your partner being aware and displaying emotions means, you as the dreamer, are aware in your waking life that you’re making your partner insecure and whether you know it or not, it’s hurting your partner. The most important question here, is we’re you okay with it? If you were ,Spirit is coming in to tell you, be careful with your actions and thought process of why you’re doing this. Just like you wouldn’t want your partner to intentionally make you feel insecure, you should reciprocate the same.
Ask yourself why you’re doing it, maybe it’s a defense mechanism to protect yourself from feeling a certain way yourself. Again look at your relationship and talk about things. If your partner has treated you indifferently or made you feel as less in the past, you may be lashing out in this form.
If you feel bad and remorseful from being caught by your partner, you are feeling guilty and it’s eating you up inside to make your partner feel this way. This is a great time to stop drinking the poison, making your partner feel insecure isn’t doing you any favors, instead it’s slowly weighing down on you and it’s now not only making your partner feel terrible, you are as well. Again, talking and communicating your issues to each other is the way to go.
Reason 2
If you are the cheater in the dream and it’s with an ex lover. This means that your current insecurities in your relationship, are stemming from your partner not giving you something you’re needing to feel good in the relationship. The lack of this element makes you feel less desirable or less of a person. Your ex lover may have showed you or gave you this missing element in your previous relationship and you’re missing this, even desiring it to be present in your current relationship. This doesn’t necessarily mean, you miss an ex lover, you just miss a certain aspect of how they treated you or gave to you.
Spirit is coming in to tell you, talk to your partner, be open and un afraid, your partner isn’t a mind reader. They need to know your true wishes and desires for your relationship. That’s the only way to move forward and fix the underlying issue for your insecurities.
CHEATING DREAMS CAN BE A BLESSING IN DISGUISE
Like all dreams alike, some dreams can be foretellers of future events, so fix your current issues within your relationships to avoid unnecessary pain and problems in a near future. If you are currently dealing with insecurities, more than ever, you need to speak up and take the necessary steps to heal and move forward in your loving relationship.
I hope this helped you gain a better understanding of your dream and hopefully, live a better life. #liveabetterlife #spiritualpower
Much Love, Mary Mckinley
Owner of Incantations N Divination LLC
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